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So I get drunk on Mondays now. What’s it to you?!

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"The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you."

— Unknown  (via infinite-paradox)

(Source: psych-facts, via yourbetterlife)

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"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it."

— Aristotle (via intj-paradigm)

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yourbetterlife:

bobdone:

If I made cards.

The card that she needs to receive.

yourbetterlife:

bobdone:

If I made cards.

The card that she needs to receive.

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INTJ personality type traits

myersandbriggs:

SEES SELF: as someone who must keep on improving knows they know, and knows what they don’t know.

OVERRIDING NEED: independence and perfection in those things that interest them.

IRRITATED BY: people who pry too much into their private world, lack of commitment and imagination from others, too much supervision.

STRENGTHS: can organise ideas into action, work to remove all obstacles to goal attainment, have a strong vision of what is achievable.

SEEN BY OTHERS: as unflappable and self-reliant to a point of being intimidating, difficult to know.

DECIDES on the basis on what seems fair, may decide sometimes too quickly but willing to back track and reassess.

IRRITATES OTHERS BY: by been too demanding, too task-focused and taking too many things for granted.

CHALLENGES: may appear so unyielding that others are afraid to challenge them, may have difficulty letting go of impractical ideas.

(Source: cohabmonkey.com)

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hipsterintj:

INTJs and ISTJs tertiary or relief function is Introverted Feeling, Fi. This function is a bit quieter for these types than for Fi dominants or supporting. It works behind the scenes, often leaving the user unaware that a Feeling function is even in play. In the tertiary position, Fi is responsible for creating deep and lasting emotional connections and creating a moral compass. 
Don’t let INTJs or ISTJs fool you into thinking they’re emotionless. It’s just that they apply their emotions very selectively. Fi, in these types, is not flighty reactive emotions, but instead builds bonds that endure.This is what cultivates deep and lasting friendships, fuels their passions, and cultivates their immutable (though highly personalized) code of ethics. They may never cry during a movie, for instance, but may be completely devastated at the finale of a TV show they’ve been following for many years. 
Much like how you have to wait for ESFPs to process their emotions before they can think logically, INTJs and ISTJs must process thoughts and experiences practically and analytically before they can truly experience the emotional core of a situation. If a loved one were to die, for instance, they may not experience their emotional response to this until after the funeral is over, the will has been read, and any other loose ends have been settled. There is a delayed response between something happening and the tertiary Fi processing it.
While it keeps our INTJs and ISTJs level-headed, there is a downside to this. Often, they are the last to know what they are feeling, leaving their loved ones to roll their eyes until their I_TJ catches on. They may become overwhelmed and unable to react in highly emotionally charged situations. Their romantic partner may do something hurtful, and they won’t get upset over it until hours, days, even months later, leaving their partner to feel like the I_TJ won’t let go of old wounds. Speaking of which, these types do in fact take quite a long time to recover from loss, betrayal, and other hurts from those with whom they have formed deep bonds. This is also where judgement comes from — not the J function, but thinking less of others for not measuring up to the I_TJ’s sense of values. 
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Related Note: The latest episode of the AskINTJ Podcast is up! You can listen to it here, download it here, or subscribe to it on iTunes.
Unrelated Note: I have recently noticed that the images from this blog have been shared on facebook, pinterest, and other websites. That would be great, except many of these people are cropping out the source watermark. I’ve always tried to keep this source annotation off to the side so as to not take away from the image, but now I’m going to have to start putting it in a more central location. I hate having to do this, but, well, this is why we can’t have nice things.

hipsterintj:

INTJs and ISTJs tertiary or relief function is Introverted Feeling, Fi. This function is a bit quieter for these types than for Fi dominants or supporting. It works behind the scenes, often leaving the user unaware that a Feeling function is even in play. In the tertiary position, Fi is responsible for creating deep and lasting emotional connections and creating a moral compass. 

Don’t let INTJs or ISTJs fool you into thinking they’re emotionless. It’s just that they apply their emotions very selectively. Fi, in these types, is not flighty reactive emotions, but instead builds bonds that endure.This is what cultivates deep and lasting friendships, fuels their passions, and cultivates their immutable (though highly personalized) code of ethics. They may never cry during a movie, for instance, but may be completely devastated at the finale of a TV show they’ve been following for many years. 

Much like how you have to wait for ESFPs to process their emotions before they can think logically, INTJs and ISTJs must process thoughts and experiences practically and analytically before they can truly experience the emotional core of a situation. If a loved one were to die, for instance, they may not experience their emotional response to this until after the funeral is over, the will has been read, and any other loose ends have been settled. There is a delayed response between something happening and the tertiary Fi processing it.

While it keeps our INTJs and ISTJs level-headed, there is a downside to this. Often, they are the last to know what they are feeling, leaving their loved ones to roll their eyes until their I_TJ catches on. They may become overwhelmed and unable to react in highly emotionally charged situations. Their romantic partner may do something hurtful, and they won’t get upset over it until hours, days, even months later, leaving their partner to feel like the I_TJ won’t let go of old wounds. Speaking of which, these types do in fact take quite a long time to recover from loss, betrayal, and other hurts from those with whom they have formed deep bonds. This is also where judgement comes from — not the J function, but thinking less of others for not measuring up to the I_TJ’s sense of values. 

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Related Note: The latest episode of the AskINTJ Podcast is up! You can listen to it here, download it here, or subscribe to it on iTunes.

Unrelated Note: I have recently noticed that the images from this blog have been shared on facebook, pinterest, and other websites. That would be great, except many of these people are cropping out the source watermark. I’ve always tried to keep this source annotation off to the side so as to not take away from the image, but now I’m going to have to start putting it in a more central location. I hate having to do this, but, well, this is why we can’t have nice things.

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thecatsmeow90:

My lovely friends and I did a thing.

(via broodingsoul)

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Shopping with my estranged wife for stuff for my new apartment (to which she’s not moving.)